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Friday, January 29, 2010

Handling Gossip

Four preachers met for a friendly gathering. During the conversation one preacher said, "Our people come to us and pour out their hears, confess certain sins and needs. Let's do the same. Confession is good for the soul." In due time all agreed. One confessed he liked to go to movies and would sneak off when away from his church. The second confessed to liking to smoke cigars and the third one confessed to liking to play cards. When it came to the fourth one, he wouldn't confess. The others pressed him saying, "Come now, we confessed ours. What is your secret or vice?" Finally he answered, "It is gossiping and I can hardly wait to get out of here."

We laugh at that story, but the truth is, there are people who love to share things about someone with anyone willing to listen. If you've ever been the one being talked about, you know how hurtful those words can be. No one likes to think that someone is talking about them, because usually what is shared isn't completely the truth. What can we do about it? Aside from approaching the person who is the gossip, we really can't stop people from saying what they will. The answer to handling words from others comes from the Scriptures.

In Psalm 119:23 the psalmist says, Princes also did sit and speak against me: but thy servant did meditate in thy statutes. I read that in my prayer time a couple days ago and it hit me like a ton of bricks - this is the way to respond when others speak ill about you! What did the psalmist do when princes spoke against him? He thought on God's Word. What might he have thought?

  • Psalm 56:9 Lord, I thank you that you are for me!
  • Psalm 73:25 Lord, you're all I the approval I want.
  • Psalm 18:20 I thank you, Lord that you know my innocence and You will handle this for me.

There could be many other truths to meditate on when someone is speaking evil against you. What a blessing it is that the Lord knows and He cares. If we meditate on His Word instead of the gossip we will be encouraged instead of enraged, humbled instead of hurt.

If you're going through a time of slander, be like the psalmist and run to the Word and think on its truths instead!

See you in church Sunday!

1 comment:

Dawn said...

Thank you! This post is exactly what I needed to hear.....I'm learning (oh that I would learn faster) to hold my tongue and guard my thoughts and RUN to Scripture. Thanks!!